When I heard the news about Mr.杨振宁 and Miss翁帆 in 2004.

What did I think？Of course the same as you: “wow, surprise.”

And I also thought: “Are there some generation gaps between them?”

But another question I got: “What is the generation gap？”

Does it mean the shared values？

If that，why so many couples of the same ages have divergence？ Even end their marriage.

Again another example, in my family, sometimes I have shared values with my grandfather, but not with my cousins who are the peers for me.

So how do we explain the generation gap？

As for Mr.杨振宁and Miss 翁帆，Maybe they know each other，they appreciate each other，they have shared values，why can't they get marriage？ What problem？ They are the soulmate.

2004年，当我听到杨振宁先生和翁帆女士的新闻时，我有何感想呢？

当然是和你们一样啦：“哇，好爆炸的消息呀！”

然后我在想：“他们会有代沟吗？”

但我脑子里又蹦出一个问题：“何谓代沟？” 是指价值观是否一致吗？

好吧，那为什么那么多同龄夫妻也有很多分歧？甚至离婚。

再举一个例子，在我的大家庭里，有时候我会跟我爷爷有一样的价值观，却无法跟我的表兄弟姐妹观点一致， 这时又如何解释代沟？

至于杨振宁先生和翁帆女士，也许他们互相了解，互相欣赏，有相同的价值观，

所以他们为什么不可以结婚？有什么问题吗？ 

他们就是灵魂伴侣呀！